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WHY CAN'T I MANIFEST MY DREAMS? We live in a time when more and more people are realizing that living the lives of their parents and grandparents just isn’t working for them. They keep thinking that there must be something more. Working at a job for years and ending with a little 401K and a lunch, what’s the point. They ask, “Why do I have to wait until I retire to start enjoying my life?” You don’t.
You can learn to live without the restraints that others try to place upon you, making your own decisions about what's right for you, creating a life that works for you, no matter what anyone else says. It also means getting rid of the obstacles that are keeping you from having the life you want. You may wonder what I mean by obstacles? After all you're grown people who make their own decisions, what kind of obstacles could you possibly have?
Well, frequently people tell me that they aren’t able to make the kind of income they want, or they have a health problem they can’t seem to get rid of, or they can’t find a good relationship, or they have emotional or family issues that keep them from being happy. And often, even if they have those things, they still just don’t feel happy.
And sometimes the obstacles are a little more subtle like: you realize one day when you’re talking to your own children that you sound just like your mother. Or you work hard and get that promotion and your father’s voice pops into your head and says, “Is that the best you can do?” We all have thoughts buried in us that we learned from our parents, grandparents, siblings, teachers, clergy, television, newspapers and everyone we’ve ever had contact with. So if nothing you do seems to be enough you probably have obstacles within you.
These obstacles are not JUST thoughts. Our thoughts actually create our reality. Our thoughts determine what happens to us and influences what happens to other people. Every person, place and thing that exists is connected energetically. Quantum physicists are now revealing, through their research, that every atom of our being is linked to and can influence the world around us. We each communicate by exchanging packets of pulsating quantum energy. Sounds like Sci Fi doesn’t it?
Here’s an example of how we are able to influence the world around us with our energy. Energy travels in waves: light waves, sound waves, electricity, you name it. There are also sub-atomic energy waves that criss-cross throughout our whole universe in a kind of energy matrix. Waves not only carry energy, but information. When two waves bump into each other, the combined energy of the waves is greater than each individual wave, so the signal is stronger. Once they’ve collided, each wave not only contains more energy, but new information, because waves are also encoders of information. This energy matrix, which we call The Field, is how one part of the universe connects with and communicates with every other part. And there are many experiments done at major universities and labs that show we really can influence things both near to us and far away, through focused energy and the power of our minds.
You may be wondering how this affects us in real life. Well, it creates laws like the Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction means that what you focus on is what you attract. By focusing on a particular idea, you send an energy wave out into the matrix. If you have more than one person focusing on the same thing, when those energy waves collide, they increase in power. The information about what you are focusing on is found and reflected back to you. In other words, you receive that which you focus on. That is why prayer, visualization and techniques for manifesting work to bring you what you ask for and if you are working with other people it works even faster.
Now you may be saying to yourself, “I’ve been focusing on having more money for years and it still hasn’t happened. Well, that is where those obstacles we were talking about come into play. Remember that thoughts create, not just the thoughts you are aware of but also those thoughts that you got from other people and the media. So while a part of you is focusing on getting more money there may be a thought creating an obstacle that you aren’t aware of. That thought is also going out into The Field and keeping money away from you.
You could also be focusing in a way that is actually repelling what you think you want. Here’s an example: let’s say you don’t have enough money. You keep focusing on how much you need money, your lack of money, and that’s what is reflected back to you....your need or lack. When you have no money, you probably feel anxious and unhappy, you are experiencing the feeling of lack and doing without. So, the universe responds to how you are feeling about your situation by giving you more of what you are focusing on, your lack. You are feeling needy and experiencing lack, so that is what is encoded in your energy wave, and that is what is reflected back to you. It’s important to change what you are feeling, and change the way you state your desire, if you want the proper energy encoding to do it’s job. So, how do we create those positive feelings needed for a good energy connection?
One way is to visualize yourself as already having whatever it is you want to attract. Let’s say you want more money. Then you visualize your checkbook, and in your mind, you see the balance written there, and make it whatever you want in your bank account, say $10,000. When you look at your checkbook and see $10,000 written there, what do you feel? For me, I feel intense satisfaction, knowing I have enough for all my needs. I see myself writing out my bills, and really enjoying paying them. I see myself going to the store to buy something I really want. I feel the enjoyment of writing out the check, carrying the item out of the store, taking it home, and then I enjoy watching myself use the item. All the time, I am experiencing the emotions associated this experience. Then, instead of walking around saying, “I need money” you must change your thoughts and words to line up with what you have visualized. You could say, “I am receiving more money every day” or something that does NOT use the words want or need, because that’s all you’re going to get if you use those words, MORE wanting and MORE needs. Leave those words out of your vocabulary.
It’s all about creating a feeling of prosperity in your life rather than a feeling of lack. And there are many techniques that will help you do this. One of the things I can do as your coach is assist you in removing obstacles. I have a variety of methods to help you change yourself, change your situation, and manifest your dreams. Some of these techniques are practical, real-life techniques, some of them are mental and emotional, and some are spiritual. You can pick what works for you and leave the rest. I can assist you in designing a program to create the right feelings for yourself, so that in every area of your life, your energy is communicating prosperity to the universe. Then that’s what you will receive back. One of these techniques is call EFT. Here's where you can see a short video and learn more about EFT http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nRY3UtTHvo
I'll be happy to work with you on manifesting your dreams. You can contact me by email or phone, 580-250-0115, if you are interested in individual sessions or would like for me to speak to or teach your groups. An idividual session lasts 30 minutes and cost $45.00. For more price options click here. As my one-on-one EFT client, we will usually talk by telephone or in person once a week for 30 minutes. Each Monday, you will email me a Coaching Prep Form listing your insights or releases for the week, and explaining what you would like to focus on in the coming healing sessions. | I invite you to join my mailing list. When you sign up I will send you a free copy of the ebook 'As A Man Thinketh' by James Allen
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